So what is it that makes the perfect picture? Is it the lighting, location, or wardrobe? Is it the pose or props? Sure those things can all help, and we all love a good location but honestly they aren't as important as you would think... and they are definitely not worth stressing over. What makes a great session is actually something much simpler and so much more obtainable. Here are a couple of thoughts on how to get amazing engagement pictures.
1. Be into each other
Act like you are in love! Remember these pictures are about a couple in love. Not two random people that can awkwardly hold hands and tilt their head with a cheesy smile. I know it can be intimidating having a camera pointed at you. Nothing is a mood killer like a lens in your face. But try to forget about the camera and that you are "taking pictures". Just be connected with each other and be in the moment. You would be surprised, my best shoots are the ones that the couple never actually poses, they simply interact with each other. Seriously, don't over think it! That's the best advice I can give.
I love shoot with long lens in order to wonder off a bit in order to give the couple some space. I will often leave them sitting for 5 minutes on a park bench somewhere just talking. It's amazing the shots I can get when they forget the camera is around.
Act silly, it's OK! Just be yourselves and the camera will capture your personality. It's OK to be a little goofy, run around, play games, do the things you normally do. You aren't frustrating the photographer at all. In fact this is what every photographer wants! This is one of the secrets to getting great shots that looked staged but aren't. Simply be in the moment. Interact. Have fun. Most couples have some little look or inside joke between them that brings out the true personality. The idea is to capture who you really are and why you love each other. Don't worry about every detail being perfect, just have fun with each other and trust me, the pictures will be perfect.
3. Be happy and relax
You don't have to spend hours practicing your smile or try to figure out which is your "good side". Just be happy in the moment. Treat the shoot like a really fun date with the person you love and are most comfortable with. Engagement shoots are meant to be fun and relaxed. I suggest if time allows, go to dinner before the shoot, do something together to relax. The more relaxed you are, the better the photos. Trust me, fake smiles aren't fooling anyone! This also is true for the photographer. The photographer should make you feel relaxed and comfortable to be yourself.
So above all, just enjoy yourself. You're getting married! Don't... I repeat, don't over think it! Your pictures will be amazing!
